Mentoring vs Coaching

Ever left a coffee chat feeling...flat?

You got their time but not what you really needed.

Often, the missing piece is clarity in the ask.

When you reach out to someone — especially for coaching or mentoring — being clear about what you’re looking for helps everyone.

 1. It makes it easier for them to say yes.
 2. It helps them show up ready to play the right role.
 3. And it helps you leave with what you came for.

Ask yourself:
→ Am I looking for answers — or to have my thinking stretched?
→ Am I bridging a knowledge gap — or trying to find clarity in the noise?
→ Do I want to hear their story — or uncover my next step?

Mentors share wisdom + advice.
Coaches ask questions + unlock your own thinking.

Both are valuable.

Being clear on what you need?

That's often the difference between a good conversation and a great one.